给女儿的一封信

女儿，

当妈妈知道你在学校作弊后，心里很难过，也很伤心。

作弊是一个很大的错，是一种欺骗的行为。长大后，如果有欺骗的行为，被抓是会被鞭打和坐牢的。

你现在这么小就有这种行为，妈妈真的很担心你长大后不能做一个有用的人。

我希望你能够好好的反省，想一想你要妈妈怎么惩罚你。

妈妈。

女儿回信给妈妈：

妈咪，

放心，我不会在从范了！你原谅我吧！我就给你罚11月份不可以玩电脑OK吗？还有明天是我朋友名叫Jannelle的生日，我可以和妹妹一起去吗？爸爸说他可以1点带我去吃午餐才去！希望妈妈会原谅。

舒尹写

16日10月2009年

对不起女儿，妈妈不能答应让你去参加朋友的生日派对。妈妈决定要严厉的惩罚你，我要让你永远记住不要再有这种欺骗的行为。

你一定要记住妈妈今天跟你讲的每一句话，天下没有不劳而获的东西，一份耕耘，一份收获。天上有神明，瞒得过自己，瞒不了神明。你今天犯了这个大错，需要做回很多很多的好事才能弥补。“若要人不知，除非己莫为”，学校的老师都知道你这次的行为，同学们也会记得，亲戚朋友都会知道，如果你不下定决心改过，同学们会远离你，老师会不相信你，人人会看不起你。从今天开始只说好话和做好事，一定要承认你的过错，向所有的人保证你一定会改过。

其实你会有这样的行为，妈妈也有错。是妈妈教导无方，我也觉得很羞耻。平时妈妈对你太放松了，没有很坚持的督促你，让你有机生了歪念。这一次，妈妈一定会好好的管教你，让你牢牢的记住犯错后的代价。

从今天开始，为期一个月，妈妈将不会准你参加任何的生日会，包括明天和下个星期健旭表弟的生日会，不能看电视，不能玩电脑，一个月没有零用钱，每一天都要做30次的拉耳朵站蹲运动，抄写国文，华文及英文作文各两篇。

如果行为良好，期限可能会被缩短。

加油吧！

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This time Ja Yin tall enough to join this ride already, they went for this ride several time. At first, Kakak dared not go for the ride. After seeing them enjoying so much, at last she tried once.

Father and son

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Princes and princesses of Bunga Teratai (M) 2008

You looks very smart in the gown!

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Very soon, you are entering primary school, which is a tougher challenge in your life. I do not know how would it be. I am a little bit worry about you... you were so pampered in TSS. The teachers were so nice and so patient. You told me that you love this school very much, because all the teachers there are very nice, would not scold or beat students. I am happy to find a great school for you. Two months later, you are going to a new school, you are a big girl now. Mommy wishing you all the best and be happy in your new school. I know you were a little bit disappointed that you could not go to the same school with Kai Xin, but you have to learn to face this kind of incident, this is very common and it could not be avoid in life. Since Kai Xin is staying not far from us, two of you still can be friends. Moreover, both of you learning ballet in the same school. I wish two of you be friends forever...

Mid Autumn Festival 2008

Award Ceremony by Erican

My dear, you looked gorgeous!

After you take the certificate, you were asked to give a short thank you speech which was prepared by the teachers: -" Good morning Mr. Eric Chong, ladies and gentlemen. My name is Chong Shu Yin and I am 9 years old. Learning English in Erican is fun. I love coming to Erican every week. I am sure my English will improve. Thank you, Daddy and Mummy."

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You were so nervous to stand beside Mr Eric Chong.
Look at your face, you looked like standing stiff there! Haha...

Doesn't he look handsome? Your answer was "NO!" Then I asked who is the handsome one, your answer is daddy. Daddy was so happy, that day he bought you a pair of new shoes. Haha... So now you know what to do next time when you want to ask something from your dad.

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School holiday 0808