My first ice-skating experience

This is the first time they went for ice skating, one night before they go, they were so excited, looking forward to the game. They woke up so early in the morning and fully "equipped" with long pants, long sleeves, vest and water proof groves.

Before they go, I told them that it could be a tough lesson, be prepared to have a lot of falling, but do not scared and do not give up, keep on practicing, when you are able to manage it, you can fly as fast as you can.

I also told them that, if you scared of falling, this would be the first time and also the last time to go skating, if you know how to skate already, will bring you all go for ice-skating again in next school holiday, I think this might be the strongest encouragement for them.

The little girl in black is their new friend, named Beatrice. She was alone there, their parents left her there and went for movie. She is a nice girl, at first she helped Shu Yin to go to the center of the field. Shu Yin was encouraged by her and able to walked on her own. Later when Shu Yin met her classmate, she left Beatrice behind... (the two little girls behind them are Shu Yin and her friend) Later, on my request, Beatrice was so kind to guide Jayin for her first walk in the center of the field. Thank you very much, Beatrice.

Jayin had a great fall, made Beatrice fell too. She got her elbow hurt. I'm so sorry Beatrice.

Luckily Jayin was in long sleeves, if not she might have her skin hurt too.

Come on, let's stand up and try again!

Shu Yin and her classmate Janelle. What a small world, they were there at the same time!

Shu Yin is a fast learner, look at her, so confident! She was able to skate on her own in her first ice-scatting experience. Mommy also cannot do that, :P.

Jayin also not bad, brave enough to walk on her own already, although not very good in skating, but I think this is pretty good already in the very first time.

Girls, mommy is proud of you!

After ice-skating, we hung around in the mall.

2 pretty mommy have a nice chat there, then go home tiredly...

给孩子上的第一堂性教育

最近两个小瓜经常看电视，偶尔会有一些情节，他们是看不懂或似懂非懂的，所以我觉得有必要给他们上一堂课，免得他们胡思乱想，或有错误的诠释。

所以我就故意的挑起他们的好奇心，问他们到底知不知道是怎么有bb的？

果然他们给我的答案，让我啼笑皆非，他们的单纯实在很可爱！

舒尹：是不是，一男一女结婚了，睡在同一张床上就会有bb?

哈哈，这好像是某国家部分成人性知识调查里的一个答案（某报章曾刊登其中一个国家的成人性知识程度有提到许多成人甚至已婚人士提供这样的答案），原来部分成人只有有我女儿的一般见识。

我说：那有这么简单？（忍住笑）

舒尹：那是不是有kiss kiss, 才会有？

我说：也没那么简单。（。。。心里在偷笑）

捷尹：那是不是要脱衣服的？ （欸。。。这小妞好像懂更多呢！）

我说：是的。

捷尹：那要不要脱裤子？（讲到要点了。）

我说：要。但是不是随随便便要就要的。

。。。比如说：假如爸爸要，妈妈不要就不能了，又或者妈妈要，爸爸不要也不能。

。。。还有更深的，迟点再告诉你们。

因为场合不是很恰当（我们正在饭桌上），我暂卖关子，要他们晚上睡前在床上等我，我再详细的告诉他们。

结果两个小瓜早早就梳洗干净，钻进被子里等我为他们讲解一些很重要的知识。

嗯，这环境最恰当！

我就叫老大把他的健康教育课本拿出来，4年级的课本有教关于身体的结构，还有关于体内各器官的图片，当天的主题是生殖器官，我们就只看生殖器官了。

我就很耐心的、简单化的、一步一步为他们解说。

根据图片：男性有睾丸，输精管及阴茎。

女性有子宫，卵巢及阴道。

舒尹：bb就是在子宫里长大的咯。（哦，这个老师有教过。）

我说：是的，那么bb又是怎么来的呢？

两个一起说：不懂，妈咪快点讲啦！（很紧张！）

我就很专业的指着图片，这是睾丸，睾丸会制造精子，当两夫妻在做爱的时候，男性会把阴茎放进女性的阴道，把精虫放在子宫里。女性的卵巢则会排卵，当卵子与精子结合的时候就会形成胚胎（小bb）了。

那你们有知道为什么女生会来月经吗？

两个瞪大眼睛看着我，没有回答我的意思。

我又继续说：那是因为女生每个月都会排卵一次，假如卵子没有与精子结合，那么卵子就会变成经血流出体外。

捷尹：那来月经会不会痛？

我说：通常都不会，因为那不是受伤的流血。

我也顺便教导他们如何保护自己，如何照顾阴道清洁等等的问题。

然后让他们自由发问问题，有问必答！满足他们的求知欲。

嗯，那是一个很好的交谈，我们母女的感情又跨进了一步。

我很开心为他们上了这一课，最低限度他们比某国很多的成人有知识。

哈哈o(∩_∩)o...哈哈。。。

Boe Yin in Day Care Centre

To many parents, it is a cruel thing to put a baby below 2 years old in Taska. But I have to do this to my beloved son. Last month, Boe Yin's bb sitter needed to take 2 weeks leave, due to her house renovation. I started to do this cruel thing to my son...

1st day in school, he was so adventure, looked here and there, I took him to tour around the centre. Then sneaked away quietly. Called back to the centre after half an hour, teacher said no problem, he acted like own house there. Phew... Felt release...

The second day, haha... he even waved goodbye to me. What a good boy!

TengTeng Teng TENG... on the third day, he was not feeling well. So he was a bit neglected to go to school. When he reached there, he refused to get down, sticked to me like a sticker. I have to go in together with him, played together with him... for more than half an hour, he still very alert about my present, no chance to sneak at this time... I had to leave at that time, appointment was delayed and delayed. The teacher asked me to go, they can handle it. I have no choice, so I left my crying son behind...

I could hear his cry even in my car, my heart was pain, and my eyes wet... sorry my son.

I called the school half an hour later, the teacher said he was fine, I choose to believe her.

The following days... at least 3 days continuously, when we approaching the school, he started crying in the car already. He could recognized the terrace house there, smart huh!

When I observed him quietly, I found that, he actually not really crying sadly...

Because he stopped crying when he reached the door step of the classroom on the first day, the next two days he stopped crying when his teacher took him over from me, stop so fast, no tears one... hahaha.... naughty huh, this little bb boy!

Having Fun at Genting Highland...

This is the very first time that we bring Boe Yin to Genting Highland, he was very happy and enjoyed very much throughout the whole journey. He was very behaved and co-operatived, besides when we were on the way home, he was crying for a while, most probably that he was feeling uneasy caused by the air pressure, when we traveled down from the mountain. After I took him out from his car seat, he was alright to sit with me, fall asleep on my body till back home. 

This time Ja Yin tall enough to join this ride already, they went for this ride several time. At first, Kakak dared not go for the ride. After seeing them enjoying so much, at last she tried once.

Father and son

The last time we visited Genting Highland was 3 years ago, it was Shu Yin's birthday, she still remember that, she was not allowed to play a lot of kids ride, because of her height, and she was not able to go on many other rides, where she is not tall enough. This time she does, she wants to try every rides that she is eligible to do so, she even dares to go on roller coaster, the skyride and so on.